The Asbury Park and Seaside Heights seashores and boardwalks are quiet Thursday forward of Memorial Day weekend anticipated crowds.

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Memorial Day received’t be the identical this yr. 

It may well’t be.

There aren’t any gross sales on the mall. No sizzling canines and hamburgers on the grill with a forged of 30 associates and kinfolk within the yard or at an area park. No baseball video games or tennis matches. No motion pictures. No Broadway reveals. No live shows. No parades.   


However there’s additionally one other essential distinction this yr.

Memorial Day 2020 comes as America confronts the tragic actuality that about 100,000 of its residents have died in lower than three months from the coronavirus pandemic. By Labor Day, some researchers predict we could also be nearing the 200,000 mark. Who is aware of what the dying toll can be like by Thanksgiving or New Yr’s Day – or subsequent Memorial Day?  

Memorial Day is historically reserved to recollect America’s battle lifeless. After all, that won’t change. Nevertheless it’s exhausting to disclaim that this yr’s Memorial Day brings one other give attention to the deaths from the pandemic sweeping throughout all 50 states.


To grasp what our nation has skilled for the reason that first studies in March of deaths from the coronavirus often known as COVID-19, it’s price trying again to America’s bloodiest wars.  

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Throughout 5 years of the Civil Conflict, about 215,000 Union and Accomplice troopers died in fight, in accordance with the Division of Veterans Affairs. In the course of the bloody four-year stretch of World Conflict II, some 291,000 U.S. army personnel perished in fight, in accordance with the Protection Division. 1000’s of different troopers additionally died from wartime illnesses and accidents.

These are terrifying statistics. And our nationwide cemeteries are a silent and dramatic testomony to the women and men misplaced not solely in these wars however within the lengthy string of conflicts which are a part of our historical past, beginning with the American Revolution and persevering with by way of in the present day in Iraq and Afghanistan and different sizzling spots within the seemingly limitless Conflict on Terrorism.

However the COVID-19 disaster is definitely worse on this singularly horrific side: Extra People have died from March to Memorial Day from the coronavirus than in any three-month stretch of any U.S. battle, together with the Civil Conflict and World Conflict II.  


Those that say we’re preventing a battle on COVID-19 are proper. COVID-19 is extra deadly than the worst fight in America’s bloodiest conflicts – even worse than the U.S. fight losses in preventing the Nazis or Japanese warlords of World Conflict II.

After all, the Nazis and Japanese goons additionally killed their share of harmless folks too. The Nazi dying camps and the Japanese brutality in China stands out as an appalling reminder of the immense cruelty they dropped at the world within the 1930s and 1940s. At some factors, the killing charges throughout the Holocaust or with the battle crimes by Japanese troopers in China and different components of Asia exceeded what’s now happening with COVID-19.

However not by a lot.


What the coronavirus has already completed to our nation can be felt for generations. All of us settle for that. However contemplate how many are measuring the impression of the virus up to now.

Sure, we hear each day studies of the dying toll. And, right here in New Jersey, Gov. Phil Murphy fortunately has stepped past the mere reciting of numbers and refers back to the lifeless – rightfully – as “blessed souls.”

However in far too many corners of America and from far too many political leaders, the toll in human lives has develop into a footnote to the financial losses. Cash trumps life. And by extension, the calls throughout the nation to “reopen” the economic system and different elements of American life appear frightfully louder than the mourning bells and memorials to the lifeless.


That is the unhappy reality of all wars, I suppose. It’s solely pure that we give attention to the victories, not on the inconvenient truths of the fee in human life to win a battle.

The same “reality” has emerged within the struggle in opposition to COVID-19. The each day dying toll looks like a bothersome drumbeat as we look ahead to the true information about unemployment and the efforts to discover a vaccine or a glimmer of optimistic information about when colleges or malls or Broadway would possibly “return” to life.

However contemplate what we’re lacking on this Memorial Day weekend.

Right here, in New Jersey, greater than half of the 10,000 “blessed souls” who’ve succumbed to the virus have been dwelling in nursing properties. Comparable statistics are present in states throughout the nation. Far too a lot of these so-called “properties” have been not likely properties in any respect however have been understaffed dumping grounds for the aged. In a single nursing dwelling, our bodies of the lifeless have been positioned in a storage room. A lot for Grandma’s or Grandpa’s “golden years.”


COVID-19 not solely attacked essentially the most weak amongst us nevertheless it ravaged by way of locations that ought to have had extra subtle protections for his or her aged residents. As if that isn’t tragic sufficient, contemplate this irony: Scores of the seniors who’ve died have been dwelling in nursing properties for army veterans. Even after defending our nation, we fell brief in defending them.

That is the burdensome actuality we bear on this Memorial Day.

Sure, we’ll dutifully mourn the lifeless from our nation’s wars. I’ll personally bear in mind my father, a Marine officer who served in World Conflict II, Korea and Vietnam and is buried at Arlington Nationwide Cemetery.


However let’s not let Memorial Day cross with out pondering of the lifeless from this new battle and what the invisible enemy often known as the coronavirus has completed to us.

The COVID-19 pandemic has not united America. We’re nonetheless divided — perhaps extra so — with some politicians from so-called “purple states” resenting “blue states” for demanding an excessive amount of assist and with our president regularly downplaying the impression of the virus whereas trumpeting hoaxes and incorrect data. 

In previous years, Memorial Day drew us collectively as a nation. We shared the frequent bonds of mourning.


Greater than ever, we have to discover these frequent bonds once more.

Mike Kelly is an award-winning columnist for To get limitless entry to his insightful ideas on how we dwell life in New Jersey, please subscribe or activate your digital account today.

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